He could be Nevertheless effective throughout the Dating Site. Should This Trouble Me?

Reader Question:

i am witnessing this person for about three months now. We came across online and recently decided to perhaps not see others. We actually enjoy each other and needs to introduce our individuals.

He is still productive from the dating site we came across off of. He admitted to using informal conversations nevertheless every so often. I am not a jealous or insecure individual, but it has sort of struck me wrong.

Should this bother me?

-Ayra (Vermont)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Answer:


Should this frustrate you? Completely! He or she is however playing the field on the internet and looking for a more impressive, better offer.

I think you need to contact their bluff. Tell him his words of uniqueness indicate nothing if he’s nonetheless solitary on line. Declare that you two gone to live in quickly and tell him you are pleased to go-back online also, if he thinks remaining solitary is ideal.

Oh, and yet another thing, prevent sex with him.

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